
(Bride by lotta4ever)
Some of you who read the title of this post will be thinking, “What’s he talking about?
OK. Here it is: Back in the day, traditional weddings had all kinds of customs, some of them plainly curious. For example, on her wedding day, the bride was expected to fulfill this precept in regard to her attire or risk bad luck:
“Something old, something new, something borrowed and something blue.”
I knew one bride whose dress was the one her mother wore at her own wedding — something old. Her white shoes were brand new. She wore her aunt’s ruby neckless. Her blue eyes were a slight departure from the usual blue handkerchief, but they were a definite fulfillment of the last requirement for good luck. Something blue.
I think Catholics should have a similar adage in the liturgy of life. We need substantive things which water the roots of our Faith, otherwise that Faith dries up.
How about this:
Something old – It could simply be the Faith handed down to you. Or, your memory of the sign of the cross that your mother taught you or the ritual of getting down on your knees to pray when you pray the rosary. I remember my father on his knees after supper as we prayed the family rosary. Maybe a material thing like a cherished rosary or a treasured bible would work best.
Something new – It could be a holy card of St. Carlo Acutis, our most recent saint, or a new book on the Catholic faith or Bishop Barron’s latest homily or, even the memory of your most recent reception of the Holy Eucharist. What have you done recently to refresh your Faith? How can you experience its newness?
Something borrowed – This is something that’s with you for a while but that you have to return because it puts a religious obligation on you. Faith is a gift you received and you must return it refreshed to someone who is needs it. Don’t bury that Faith. You borrowed it, now you should return the favor to someone else. Actually, this is the way Our lord designed so that His Church would never fade away.

Sea and Sky (Enriqueseask)
Something blue: Think of the skies, the color of the vast expanse of the heavens on a bright cloudless day. It could be the sea, dark blue and limitless until it recognizes a shore, then it becomes a warmer blue. Lit by the lighthouse of your Faith, there is always something blue, if no more than a violet lifting its head in the Spring.
Always, and I mean always, have something holy with you. Whether it’s a blessed rosary around your neck, a holy card in your wallet or a small crucifix that you can feel in your pocket. Whatever it is, whether old, or new or borrowed, or blue, it will remind you of your commitment to Christ Jesus.










